Understanding the Connection Between Self-Harm and Addiction

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Trigger warning: This post discusses self-harm and may be unsuitable for sensitive readers. If you are in crisis, please call 988.

March is Self-Harm Awareness Month, and Coastal Detox of Southern California is joining the effort to raise awareness about the important connection between mental health, self-injury, and addiction. Self-harm is a complex issue that is too often overlooked in the addiction treatment setting. 

Self-harm is not merely a cry for attention; it is a serious mental health crisis, and for many, it becomes inextricably linked to the cycle of addiction. Patients experiencing self-harm require integrated, dual-diagnosis care that comprehensively addresses the root cause of their drug or alcohol use alongside the co-occurring mental health disorders that perpetuate and reinforce cycles of addictive behavior. 

If you or a loved one are struggling to overcome the cycle of self-harm and substance use, Coastal Detox is here to help. Call our admissions team today, we are available 24/7 for same-day admissions into our residential San Diego facility. 

March is Self-Harm Awareness Month

What is Self-Harm (NSSI)?

Non-Suicidal Self-Injury (NSSI), commonly referred to as self-harm, is the deliberate infliction of pain or damage to one’s own body tissue without suicidal intent. This behavior serves as a maladaptive coping mechanism to manage intense, overwhelming negative emotions. It is often a desperate attempt to find relief from emotional numbness, distress, guilt, or anxiety — paralleling the reasons many people turn to excessive drug and/or alcohol use. 

Common Forms of NSSI include:

  • Cutting or scratching the skin
  • Burning or branding
  • Head-banging or hitting
  • Interfering with wound healing
  • Ingesting harmful substances (not to cause death)

It is crucial to understand that while NSSI is not an attempt to die, it significantly increases the long-term risk of suicide attempts.

Self-Harm and Substance Abuse

The connection between self-harm and addiction is bidirectional and complex, rooted in the shared goal of emotional regulation and avoidance. Research consistently highlights a high comorbidity rate: people who engage in self-harm are statistically much more likely to develop a substance use disorder, and those struggling with addiction often report a history of NSSI.

Increasingly, self-harm is described as a form of behavioral addiction itself among scientists and clinicians. Research consistently tracks similar behaviors among those with NSSI as are used to diagnose substance use disorder, particularly the compulsive repetition of the behavior, obsessive thinking about the behavior, and the inability to stop despite wanting to or negative consequences. 

Self-Medication and Emotional Numbing

For many people, both self-harm and substance abuse begin as methods of “self-medication.”

  • Self-Harm as Emotional Release: The physical pain temporarily overrides or distracts from the deeper emotional pain, creating a brief, immediate sense of relief or control.
  • Substances as Numbing Agents: Alcohol or drugs are used to numb overwhelming feelings, quiet intrusive thoughts, or escape reality.

Over time, the brain begins to rely on these external methods—the rush of endorphins from self-injury or the chemical effects of a substance—to cope, leading to a compulsive cycle.

Shared Underlying Risk Factors

Many conditions that predispose a person to self-harm often overlap with those leading to addiction. These shared risk factors include:

  • Co-occurring mental health disorders, especially anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and borderline personality disorder (BPD).
  • Personal history of trauma or abuse.
  • Poor coping skills, or the inability to tolerate discomfort or delay gratification.
  • Genetic predisposition to mental health issues through family history

Cycle of Shame and Escalation

Engaging in either self-harm or substance abuse often leads to intense feelings of shame, guilt, and isolation. This distress then fuels the need to cope, creating a vicious cycle.

As tolerance to a substance grows, or the relief from self-harm lessens, individuals often escalate the intensity or frequency of both behaviors, placing them at increasingly high risk.

Recovery is Possible: Integrated Treatment at Coastal Detox

For effective and lasting recovery, it is essential to treat self-harm and substance use disorders concurrently, addressing the core underlying emotional issues that drive both behaviors.

Comprehensive Treatment Approaches:

  1. Dual Diagnosis Treatment: Our programs are specifically designed to treat co-occurring mental health disorders (the drivers of self-harm) alongside the substance use disorder.
  2. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT): DBT is highly effective for individuals with histories of NSSI and addiction. It focuses on teaching essential skills in four key areas:
    • Mindfulness
    • Distress Tolerance (crucial for replacing self-harm/substance use)
    • Emotion Regulation
    • Interpersonal Effectiveness
  3. Trauma-Informed Care: Recognizing that trauma is a major driver of both issues, our approach ensures that all care is delivered in a safe, collaborative, and non-re-traumatizing environment.
  4. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Helps clients identify triggers, challenge destructive thought patterns, and develop healthy, adaptive coping responses.

This Self-Harm Awareness Month, if you or a loved one are struggling with self-harm and addiction, please know that hope and help are available. Reaching out is the first, brave step toward healing and learning to manage life’s emotional storms without turning inward or toward a substance.


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Understanding the Connection Between Self-Harm and Addiction

Phil Castagnola

Case Manager

Philip was born and raised in San Diego. He grew up with parents who were functioning alcoholics /addicts. This led to adopting a faulty belief system from a very early age that using drugs and alcohol was an acceptable way to live. The belief system made it normal for him to begin using substances at the age of 15.
Philip has been a surfer his entire life and competed professionally for a few years in his 20’s. He has primarily worked in the surf industry. He eventually opened his own surf shop (Select Surf Shop) in the early 2000’s. His addiction eventually got the better of him and after losing his business and his family in 2006 he spent the next 3 years in and out of rehabs trying to recover. His substance abuse issues eventually landed him in federal prison. He used his time wisely and started working the steps of alcoholics anonymous and completing an 18-month treatment program. 
Philip was the primary caregiver for his mom who was permanently bedridden for the last 4 years. When covid hit he decided to pursue one of his goals and began going to school to become a substance abuse counselor.

After struggling with substance abuse issues for over 20 years philip now has 1 years of continuous sobriety and works a program of recovery givi4ng back to other addicts and alcoholics through sponsorship in the program of AA.

Philip studied AODS at San Diego City College and he is now completing his internship here at Coastal Detox of Southern California.

Philip’s main passion is sharing his experience, strength and hope with others who struggle with substance abuse issues. Helping others through their journey of getting and remaining free of their bondage of addiction.

Kay Saffe LPCC

Clinical Director

Kay Saffe grew up in Miami, Florida and is a first generation American with Argentinian roots. She struggled with drinking and substances, especially throughout her youth. Today, she has been in recovery for years and strives to prioritize her spiritual, mental, and physical health.

A lifelong athlete and ocean lover, she moved to San Diego to pursue a Master’s degree in counseling at the University of San Diego and progress her surfing. She has spent years working as a surf instructor and therapist, working with local non-profits that treat at risk individuals and families in English and Spanish. She incorporates a mindful and holistic approach to therapy. She is passionate about positive psychology and helping others through their recovery journey.

Jeff Swem, SUDRC

Director of Operations

Jeff was born and raised in San Diego, and spent much of his youth living blocks from where our residential housing is located.  He spent his teenage years skateboarding up and down the surrounding streets, and enjoying the Pacific Beach life in the 80’s/early 90’s. 

Jeff got to know the darker side of addiction early in life, with three near-death experiences in a row happening within a year.  He “settled down” into alcohol, and later in life became a professional brewer, but that too proved to be too cunning, baffling, and powerful a draw.  During Covid, he felt no choice but to surrender, and made the decision to get sober.  He attended a similar program to our own, and after completing the 30 days inpatient and attending IOP aftercare, he was able to forge a strong foundation of sobriety.  He has not found a reason to pick up a drink since the day that he checked into that detox.  After quitting the brewing gig (because of course, he had little choice there), he enrolled in the AODS program at City College with his sights on a new career of helping others.  Having completed the requirements involved, he went on to earn his certification in California for Substance Use Disorder Certified Counselor.

Jeff is married to his wife of nearly 25 years with a 21 year old daughter and 18 year old son, and thanks to the 12 steps, surrounding himself with a caring and supportive sober community, and coming to terms with his alcoholism, is able to lead others struggling with addiction through example and personal experience.