What is Alcoholics Anonymous?

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Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) is the most well-known and widely utilized peer-support program for people seeking recovery from addiction. 12-Step meetings like AA provide a supportive, anonymous environment for millions of people to share their experience, strength, and hope with the common goal of maintaining sobriety.

Popular offshoots of AA include Narcotics Anonymous (NA), Al-Anon (for family and friends of those with addiction), and Alateen (for people 18 and under). All of these programs follow a similar 12-Step model with regular peer support meetings, sponsorship, and safe, non-judgmental spaces to share and process personal experiences. 

At Coastal Detox of Southern California, 12-Step groups are a key pillar of our treatment model. Our residential patients attend meetings daily, either on-site at Coastal Detox with just our closed group, or off-site at one of the many thriving AA or NA groups in our local San Diego community. 

Our goal is for patients to establish a supportive network of peers in recovery while they’re still in treatment so that when they’re ready to discharge, they already have a sober routine in place. If you’re ready to join our community and see what life in recovery has to offer, don’t wait. Call us today to start your admission

Understanding AA

The fundamental principle of AA is that alcoholism is a disease, not a moral failing or a question of willpower. The disease model of addiction defines substance abuse and dependence as a progressive, chronic, relapsing condition that can be managed through abstinence, lifestyle changes, and continued commitment to personal growth. 

AA is not a professional treatment organization, it’s a non-denominational, self-supporting, and apolitical fellowship of people who have a desire to stop drinking. The 12 Steps of AA are a set of principles that lead the person to a spiritual awakening that allows them to stay sober.

While the program includes references to “God,” AA is non-sectarian, and members are encouraged to define their own “Higher Power” however they understand it.

What Are the 12 Steps of AA?

  1. Admit that we are powerless over alcohol and that our lives have become unmanageable. 
  2. Believe that only a Higher Power can restore us to sanity.
  3. Make a decision to turn our lives over to our Higher Power. 
  4. Take a moral inventory of ourselves and our lives. 
  5. Admit our wrongs to our Higher Power, to ourselves, and to another human being. 
  6. Be ready to be freed from our moral defects.
  7. Humbly ask our Higher Power to remove our moral defects. 
  8. Make a list of all the people we have harmed, and be ready to make amends.
  9. Make direct amends to the people we have harmed, whenever possible without causing greater injury. 
  10. Continually take personal inventory and promptly admit whenever we are in the wrong.
  11. Meditate to improve our relationship with and understanding of our Higher Power.
  12. Following our spiritual awakening, continue to carry this message to other alcoholics and practice these principles throughout our lives. 

 

Digital copies of The Big Book of AA, the 12 Steps and the 12 Traditions, plus daily reflections and other resources are available at AA.org

The Importance 12-Step Meetings in Addiction Recovery

For people in addiction recovery, regular attendance at 12-Step meetings is a cornerstone of long-term sobriety. Meetings provide the community, understanding, accountability, and support. 

Alcoholics Anonymous is a global community, meaning that even when traveling for vacation, a 12-step meeting is never far. This makes it easy to stick to a routine and prioritize sobriety no matter where you are.  

AA meetings offer a safe space where people can be open about their struggles without fear of judgment. This shared experience fosters a sense of belonging and reduces the feelings of shame and isolation often associated with addiction. Having a schedule of regular meetings provides accountability, helping people stay focused on their commitment to abstinence, especially during challenging times.

What Happens at AA Meetings?

AA meetings vary in format, but all share the common purpose of providing a safe, supportive, and anonymous environment for people to share their experiences and support one another in sobriety. Meetings are typically held in churches, community centers, or other accessible public spaces.

The two main types of meetings are:

  • Open Meetings: These are open to anyone interested in AA, including non-alcoholics like family, students, or researchers. Speakers share their stories of alcoholism, recovery, and what life is like now.
  • Closed Meetings: These are only for people who have a desire to stop drinking. They provide a more focused and intimate space for members to discuss issues related to their sobriety and the application of the 12 Steps.

 

Most meetings follow a simple structure:

  • Opening: A chairperson opens the meeting with a reading of the AA Preamble, the 12 Steps, and the 12 Traditions.
  • Sharing: Members are invited, but not required, to share their personal struggles, successes, and reflections related to their recovery journey. Sharing is limited to a few minutes per person to allow everyone who wishes to speak a chance to do so.
  • Announcements and Literature: Announcements about group service or upcoming events are made, and often AA-approved literature is read.
  • Closing: The meeting closes with a moment of silence and the recitation of the Serenity Prayer.

 

No dues or fees are required to attend; however, a collection basket is usually passed around to cover the group’s expenses (space rental fees, coffee, literature). Contribution is entirely voluntary, as is sharing or participating. 

What is a Sponsor in AA?

A sponsor is a person who has maintained sobriety through the AA program for an extended period and guides newcomers through the Twelve Steps. This relationship between sponsor and sponsee is a mentorship that provides essential personalized support, wisdom, and direction on how to apply the 12-Step principles to daily life.

Having a sponsor is not a requirement for participation in AA, but many people find it beneficial and rewarding for numerous reasons:

  • Personalized Support: The sponsee receives essential, one-on-one help and guidance.
  • Immediate Availability: The sponsee can contact their sponsor any time, without needing to wait for the next meeting. This can help them identify triggers and manage cravings to drink or use drugs in real time, preventing a relapse before it happens. 
  • Guidance Through the Steps: The sponsor guides the newcomer through the application of the 12 Steps and identifying a Higher Power that has meaning for them.
  • Wisdom and Direction: The sponsor offers practical wisdom based on their own extended sobriety.
  • Applying Spiritual Principles: They provide direction on how to integrate the spiritual principles of the Steps into daily life.

What is the Success Rate of AA?

Measuring the success of Alcoholics Anonymous is complicated because membership is anonymous and voluntary, making large-scale, long-term data tracking difficult. 

There have been numerous authoritative studies that highlight the effectiveness of AA and 12-Step groups in achieving and maintaining abstinence, especially when integrated with formal treatment like the residential program at Coastal Detox. 

AA and Professional Treatment

AA is not a substitute for medical or clinical care, especially during the initial phases of alcohol withdrawal and stabilization. The most effective approach to recovery is typically an integrated model that combines medically supervised detox and professional behavioral therapy with continued engagement in the supportive community of AA and 12-Step meetings.

At Coastal Detox, our medical detox and residential rehab are fully integrated with a comprehensive treatment program designed to help patients overcome all aspects of addiction—physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual. This includes daily 12-Step meetings, either with our own closed group or at a local group in our San Diego recovery community. 

We strive to see patients continue to grow long after they leave our care, and participation in regular 12-Step meetings is just one way we facilitate that goal. Learn more about our 12-Step philosophy here, or call our admissions line today at 858-333-7396 to get started.

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Phil Castagnola, SUDRC

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Clinical Director

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Jeff Swem, SUDRC

Director of Operations

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Phil Castagnola

Case Manager

Philip was born and raised in San Diego. He grew up with parents who were functioning alcoholics /addicts. This led to adopting a faulty belief system from a very early age that using drugs and alcohol was an acceptable way to live. The belief system made it normal for him to begin using substances at the age of 15.
Philip has been a surfer his entire life and competed professionally for a few years in his 20’s. He has primarily worked in the surf industry. He eventually opened his own surf shop (Select Surf Shop) in the early 2000’s. His addiction eventually got the better of him and after losing his business and his family in 2006 he spent the next 3 years in and out of rehabs trying to recover. His substance abuse issues eventually landed him in federal prison. He used his time wisely and started working the steps of alcoholics anonymous and completing an 18-month treatment program. 
Philip was the primary caregiver for his mom who was permanently bedridden for the last 4 years. When covid hit he decided to pursue one of his goals and began going to school to become a substance abuse counselor.

After struggling with substance abuse issues for over 20 years philip now has 1 years of continuous sobriety and works a program of recovery givi4ng back to other addicts and alcoholics through sponsorship in the program of AA.

Philip studied AODS at San Diego City College and he is now completing his internship here at Coastal Detox of Southern California.

Philip’s main passion is sharing his experience, strength and hope with others who struggle with substance abuse issues. Helping others through their journey of getting and remaining free of their bondage of addiction.

Kay Saffe LPCC

Clinical Director

Kay Saffe grew up in Miami, Florida and is a first generation American with Argentinian roots. She struggled with drinking and substances, especially throughout her youth. Today, she has been in recovery for years and strives to prioritize her spiritual, mental, and physical health.

A lifelong athlete and ocean lover, she moved to San Diego to pursue a Master’s degree in counseling at the University of San Diego and progress her surfing. She has spent years working as a surf instructor and therapist, working with local non-profits that treat at risk individuals and families in English and Spanish. She incorporates a mindful and holistic approach to therapy. She is passionate about positive psychology and helping others through their recovery journey.

Jeff Swem, SUDRC

Director of Operations

Jeff was born and raised in San Diego, and spent much of his youth living blocks from where our residential housing is located.  He spent his teenage years skateboarding up and down the surrounding streets, and enjoying the Pacific Beach life in the 80’s/early 90’s. 

Jeff got to know the darker side of addiction early in life, with three near-death experiences in a row happening within a year.  He “settled down” into alcohol, and later in life became a professional brewer, but that too proved to be too cunning, baffling, and powerful a draw.  During Covid, he felt no choice but to surrender, and made the decision to get sober.  He attended a similar program to our own, and after completing the 30 days inpatient and attending IOP aftercare, he was able to forge a strong foundation of sobriety.  He has not found a reason to pick up a drink since the day that he checked into that detox.  After quitting the brewing gig (because of course, he had little choice there), he enrolled in the AODS program at City College with his sights on a new career of helping others.  Having completed the requirements involved, he went on to earn his certification in California for Substance Use Disorder Certified Counselor.

Jeff is married to his wife of nearly 25 years with a 21 year old daughter and 18 year old son, and thanks to the 12 steps, surrounding himself with a caring and supportive sober community, and coming to terms with his alcoholism, is able to lead others struggling with addiction through example and personal experience.