What is Alcoholics Anonymous?

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Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) is the most well-known and widely utilized peer-support program for people seeking recovery from addiction. 12-Step meetings like AA provide a supportive, anonymous environment for millions of people to share their experience, strength, and hope with the common goal of maintaining sobriety.

Popular offshoots of AA include Narcotics Anonymous (NA), Al-Anon (for family and friends of those with addiction), and Alateen (for people 18 and under). All of these programs follow a similar 12-Step model with regular peer support meetings, sponsorship, and safe, non-judgmental spaces to share and process personal experiences. 

At Coastal Detox of Southern California, 12-Step groups are a key pillar of our treatment model. Our residential patients attend meetings daily, either on-site at Coastal Detox with just our closed group, or off-site at one of the many thriving AA or NA groups in our local San Diego community. 

Our goal is for patients to establish a supportive network of peers in recovery while they’re still in treatment so that when they’re ready to discharge, they already have a sober routine in place. If you’re ready to join our community and see what life in recovery has to offer, don’t wait. Call us today to start your admission

Understanding AA

The fundamental principle of AA is that alcoholism is a disease, not a moral failing or a question of willpower. The disease model of addiction defines substance abuse and dependence as a progressive, chronic, relapsing condition that can be managed through abstinence, lifestyle changes, and continued commitment to personal growth. 

AA is not a professional treatment organization, it’s a non-denominational, self-supporting, and apolitical fellowship of people who have a desire to stop drinking. The 12 Steps of AA are a set of principles that lead the person to a spiritual awakening that allows them to stay sober.

While the program includes references to “God,” AA is non-sectarian, and members are encouraged to define their own “Higher Power” however they understand it.

What Are the 12 Steps of AA?

  1. Admit that we are powerless over alcohol and that our lives have become unmanageable. 
  2. Believe that only a Higher Power can restore us to sanity.
  3. Make a decision to turn our lives over to our Higher Power. 
  4. Take a moral inventory of ourselves and our lives. 
  5. Admit our wrongs to our Higher Power, to ourselves, and to another human being. 
  6. Be ready to be freed from our moral defects.
  7. Humbly ask our Higher Power to remove our moral defects. 
  8. Make a list of all the people we have harmed, and be ready to make amends.
  9. Make direct amends to the people we have harmed, whenever possible without causing greater injury. 
  10. Continually take personal inventory and promptly admit whenever we are in the wrong.
  11. Meditate to improve our relationship with and understanding of our Higher Power.
  12. Following our spiritual awakening, continue to carry this message to other alcoholics and practice these principles throughout our lives. 

 

Digital copies of The Big Book of AA, the 12 Steps and the 12 Traditions, plus daily reflections and other resources are available at AA.org

The Importance 12-Step Meetings in Addiction Recovery

For people in addiction recovery, regular attendance at 12-Step meetings is a cornerstone of long-term sobriety. Meetings provide the community, understanding, accountability, and support. 

Alcoholics Anonymous is a global community, meaning that even when traveling for vacation, a 12-step meeting is never far. This makes it easy to stick to a routine and prioritize sobriety no matter where you are.  

AA meetings offer a safe space where people can be open about their struggles without fear of judgment. This shared experience fosters a sense of belonging and reduces the feelings of shame and isolation often associated with addiction. Having a schedule of regular meetings provides accountability, helping people stay focused on their commitment to abstinence, especially during challenging times.

What Happens at AA Meetings?

AA meetings vary in format, but all share the common purpose of providing a safe, supportive, and anonymous environment for people to share their experiences and support one another in sobriety. Meetings are typically held in churches, community centers, or other accessible public spaces.

The two main types of meetings are:

  • Open Meetings: These are open to anyone interested in AA, including non-alcoholics like family, students, or researchers. Speakers share their stories of alcoholism, recovery, and what life is like now.
  • Closed Meetings: These are only for people who have a desire to stop drinking. They provide a more focused and intimate space for members to discuss issues related to their sobriety and the application of the 12 Steps.

 

Most meetings follow a simple structure:

  • Opening: A chairperson opens the meeting with a reading of the AA Preamble, the 12 Steps, and the 12 Traditions.
  • Sharing: Members are invited, but not required, to share their personal struggles, successes, and reflections related to their recovery journey. Sharing is limited to a few minutes per person to allow everyone who wishes to speak a chance to do so.
  • Announcements and Literature: Announcements about group service or upcoming events are made, and often AA-approved literature is read.
  • Closing: The meeting closes with a moment of silence and the recitation of the Serenity Prayer.

 

No dues or fees are required to attend; however, a collection basket is usually passed around to cover the group’s expenses (space rental fees, coffee, literature). Contribution is entirely voluntary, as is sharing or participating. 

What is a Sponsor in AA?

A sponsor is a person who has maintained sobriety through the AA program for an extended period and guides newcomers through the Twelve Steps. This relationship between sponsor and sponsee is a mentorship that provides essential personalized support, wisdom, and direction on how to apply the 12-Step principles to daily life.

Having a sponsor is not a requirement for participation in AA, but many people find it beneficial and rewarding for numerous reasons:

  • Personalized Support: The sponsee receives essential, one-on-one help and guidance.
  • Immediate Availability: The sponsee can contact their sponsor any time, without needing to wait for the next meeting. This can help them identify triggers and manage cravings to drink or use drugs in real time, preventing a relapse before it happens. 
  • Guidance Through the Steps: The sponsor guides the newcomer through the application of the 12 Steps and identifying a Higher Power that has meaning for them.
  • Wisdom and Direction: The sponsor offers practical wisdom based on their own extended sobriety.
  • Applying Spiritual Principles: They provide direction on how to integrate the spiritual principles of the Steps into daily life.

What is the Success Rate of AA?

Measuring the success of Alcoholics Anonymous is complicated because membership is anonymous and voluntary, making large-scale, long-term data tracking difficult. 

There have been numerous authoritative studies that highlight the effectiveness of AA and 12-Step groups in achieving and maintaining abstinence, especially when integrated with formal treatment like the residential program at Coastal Detox. 

AA and Professional Treatment

AA is not a substitute for medical or clinical care, especially during the initial phases of alcohol withdrawal and stabilization. The most effective approach to recovery is typically an integrated model that combines medically supervised detox and professional behavioral therapy with continued engagement in the supportive community of AA and 12-Step meetings.

At Coastal Detox, our medical detox and residential rehab are fully integrated with a comprehensive treatment program designed to help patients overcome all aspects of addiction—physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual. This includes daily 12-Step meetings, either with our own closed group or at a local group in our San Diego recovery community. 

We strive to see patients continue to grow long after they leave our care, and participation in regular 12-Step meetings is just one way we facilitate that goal. Learn more about our 12-Step philosophy here, or call our admissions line today at 858-333-7396 to get started.

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Philip Castagnola, SUDCC, is the Program Director for Coastal Detox of Southern California. He holds an Associate’s in Science and Certification in Alcohol and Other Drug Studies from San Diego City College.

Phil has over 15 years of continuous sobriety and is an active Sponsor in the San Diego Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) community. He struggled with substance abuse issues throughout his youth. He started using drugs at the age of 15, having been raised in an environment that normalized heavy drug and alcohol use. He spent a lot of time in and out of various rehab programs before being incarcerated in federal prison, which is where he finally completed an 18-month treatment program and used that time to work the 12 Steps.

After completing his sentence and serving his debt to society, he vowed to continue to give back to others who are going through similar hardships. Phil is passionated about sharing his experience with openness and honesty so that others may find hope for their future and find the strength to break free from the bondage of addiction.

In addition to a successful career as a certified counselor, Phil is also reconnecting with his passion for surfing. Phil surfed professionally in competitions for a few years in his early 20s and even owned his own surf shop (Select Surf Shop) before losing everything to his addiction. Now in his sobriety he is able to once again surf recreationally and in contests, showing that it’s never too late to reclaim your own narrative, overcome substance use disorder, and pursue the life you were always meant to have.

Kay Saffe, LPCC

Clinical Director

Kay Saffe, LPCC,  is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor and Clinical Director at Coastal Detox of Southern California. She holds a Master’s Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from the University of San Diego and a Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology from New College of Florida. 

Kay grew up in Miami, Florida and is a first generation American with Argentinian roots. Throughout her youth, she struggled with drinking and substance abuse. Today, she has been in recovery for over 4 years and strives to prioritize her spiritual, mental, and physical health.

A lifelong athlete and ocean lover, she moved to San Diego to pursue her Master’s degree and progress her surfing. She has spent years working as a surf instructor and therapist, working with local non-profits that treat at risk individuals and families in both English and Spanish. She incorporates a mindful and holistic approach to therapy. She is passionate about positive psychology and helping others through their recovery journey.

Jeff Swem, SUDCC

Director of Operations

Jeff Swem, SUDCC, is a Substance Use Disorder Certified Counselor and the Director of Operations at Coastal Detox of Southern California. He holds an Associate’s in Science and Certification in Alcohol and Other Drug Studies from San Diego City College.

Jeff has 6 years of continuous sobriety and is active in the San Diego Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) community. Jeff struggled with substance abuse from a young age and endured some harrowing, near-death experiences before “settling down” into a career as a professional beer brewer. It was during the COVID outbreak that he surrendered to his higher power and made the choice to get sober for good.

After completing an inpatient rehab program and IOP aftercare, Jeff quit the brewing industry and pivoted to become a Substance Use Disorder Certified Counselor so he could surround himself with a caring and supportive sober community and help others who struggle with addiction by leading through example and sharing his personal experience.

Born and raised in San Diego, Jeff is married to his wife of 25 years. They have a son and daughter together, and thanks to the 12 Steps and a successful career at Coastal Detox, Jeff is able to be fully present for them every day, be a positive role model, and show them how it is possible to thrive in recovery.